Marriage Preparation

So you have met the person with whom you want to spend the rest of your life and you wish to marry. Statistics show that of the 300,000+ marriages that take place in England and Wales each year, over two thirds are the first time for both bride and groom. Therefore this is likely to be your first time, but however many times you have been up the aisle…congratulations.

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Are there special rules for serving people?

Years ago those serving in the military were required to request permission to marry. Thankfully things have changed and unless you wish to marry on board ship there's no longer a need to request your Commanding Officer's permission. However, for you to gain all the allowances the Service offer married personnel you will need to provide a copy of your marriage certificate to the Unit Personnel Office.

If you are planning to get married you need to inform your Divisional Officer to arrange leave as soon as you set a date… remember the sooner you tell your boss, the sooner he or she can plan to manage your absence, and tell you whether the date you plan fits with ship's routines. It's better to find out early, than face major disappointment nearer the day, when there may be financial implications.

More information regarding getting married or forming a civil partnership can be obtained from the Directgov website